Too often, disabled people are excluded from conversations about intimacy, dating, and relationships. Many face unique challenges when it comes to forming meaningful connections, building self-esteem, and exploring emotional and physical intimacy.
The Barriers We’re Breaking
- Societal stigma still portrays disabled people as asexual, childlike, or undesirable.
- Accessibility issues — from inaccessible venues to limited social opportunities — make it harder to form and sustain relationships.
- Misinformation and fear surrounding consent, sexual health, and boundaries often leave disabled people feeling vulnerable or isolated.
- Body image challenges are intensified by cultural ideals that rarely reflect disabled bodies.
At The Love Lounge, we’re here to transform how society views disability and intimacy. We provide education, awareness, and resources to help disabled people feel confident, empowered, and included in every aspect of relationships and connection.
At the Love Lounge, we’re here to change that. We provide education, raise awareness, and share information to help disabled people feel confident and empowered in their relationships and connections.
How do we do it? Through events, resources and one-to-one support in a friendly, inclusive space where people can access advice, share experiences, and feel understood.
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Disability and Sexual Expression Training
Want to learn more about disability, neurodiversity and sexuality? Then we have the course for you!
Our courses are perfect for anyone who has an interest in sexual health and sex education as well as those who are in caring or support roles Our bespoke training packaging can be tailored to your business, charity or organisation
Talks, events and workshops
Want us to come and talk about neurodiversity in the bedroom at your festival? Or how about disability and sex at our panel? Got a radio show you’d like us to pop on?
Get in touch to find out how to get in touch with us or have a chat about your next even
1:1 Love Lounge Sessions
We offer a confidential online advice service where Deaf, disabled and neurodivergent people can ask real questions about dating, sex, consent, body image and connection. Book a Session or write us an email – you choose!
Support us
Help us to help you! Did you know we are a registered charity? Many of our services such as The Love Lounge and resources are all offered free. There are lots of ways to get involved by volunteering, fundraising and donation.
Quest Range
‘Quest’ – a product line by name and nature – is the lovechild of sex toy manufacturer Rocks Off and disability awareness charity Enhance the UK. With our network of users who have lived experience of disability, we’ve designed a product line of toys and aids focused on making pleasure accessible and encouraging inclusive conversations
Free resources
Information on everything from disability and dating to BSL for body parts to occupational therapist advice on sexual positions.
Our free resources page is designed to educate and build awareness around all things sex, disability and beyond
Podcast
Our podcast breaks down the taboos around sex and disability. Perhaps you want to learn more about access to sexual health, or the trials and tribulations of disabled parenting. Maybe it’s dating with a disability that interests you, or you want to learn more about LGBTQ+ disabled communities. New podcast episodes will be available monthly
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Press
We believe that for change to happen the first step is to raise awareness.
We have spoken at numerous conferences and events, featured in articles and on podcasts, appeared on television and radio shows and taken over social media channels to name a few! If you would like to book us to work with you please do get in touch.
Blogs
Our free blog offers a range of Insights, interviews and articles about a broad range of topics relating to sex and disability.
If there’s a topic you’d like to cover, we’d love to hear from you
Merch
Undressing Disability celebrates the desires, bodies and humanity of 19 disabled people, whilst proudly lifting the taboo on sex and disability. Support our cause and get your hard copy or Ebook today to read on your Kindle, Apple and Android devices.